
The Tax Man and the Pharisee
Today’s Community Scripture – 3/28/2025
He told his next story to some who were complacently pleased with themselves over their moral performance and looked down their noses at the common people: “Two men went up to the Temple to pray, one a Pharisee, the other a tax man. The Pharisee posed and prayed like this: ‘Oh, God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, crooks, adulterers, or, heaven forbid, like this tax man. I fast twice a week and tithe on all my income.’ “Meanwhile the tax man, slumped in the shadows, his face in his hands, not daring to look up, said, ‘God, give mercy. Forgive me, a sinner.’ ” Jesus commented, “This tax man, not the other, went home made right with God. If you walk around with your nose in the air, you’re going to end up flat on your face, but if you’re content to be simply yourself, you will become more than yourself.”
Luke 18:9–14 (MSG)
– Reflection:
The Tax Man and the Pharisee
While attending one of the men’s breakfasts a while ago, we discussed what it means to be a man. Many guys stated paying bills, others said protecting their families, and still others mentioned loving those they take care of. I expressed my desire to improve in all these areas, meaning I wanted to be engaged in what the household is doing at any given time. A child needs something, whether it’s internal to the house or external. I need them to know that they can come to me and not be judged. The thing is, none of the answers are wrong; they just aren’t complete. It was the first time I had said that out loud in public. God has something for all of us to do. Playing dead, fighting back, and using bear spray were all answers given. Perhaps the most honest answer was, “I don’t have to be the fastest to escape the bear; I just don’t have to be the slowest.” As long as there is someone else worse off, someone who can take the brunt of it, I’ll be okay. Being a dad is the greatest career I have ever been given. Just because it was given to me doesn’t mean I understood the different complications that would arise. I did, and I still always want to be ready for what will come. I know many of the guys may have fallen back into the same groove, and many may not have. It is the ability to make a change for the better that always amazes me about being blessed.
I don’t liken any of us I encounter to the following, but this is what some might hear in various situations and settings. A Pharisee in the Bible prayed this: “God, I thank you that I am not like other people: thieves, rogues, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give a tenth of all my income.” Thank God I’m not like them – thank God I’m not in their position. This is not how we should understand prayer.
– Where do we go from here?
We should neither count our “blessings” in comparison to others nor view others as lesser because of their circumstances in life. The second man in the parable offers his prayer in this manner: “God, be merciful to me, a sinner.” Jesus says that this man is the one who is justified. The term “justified” means “to be made right” or “to be in right relationship.” Where do we fall into this trap of believing we are without need for grace? Where do we mistakenly think our relationship with God is unrelated to those around us?
– Our Prayer for Today
Father, thank you for your abundant mercy, for opening our hearts to the suffering of the world around us and guiding us in a right relationship with you and our neighbors. Amen.